Talking About Anal Sex

June 5th, 2013

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” …the most common questions I have received are always regarding anal sex. It’s unfortunate that there is not more literature on the subject as anal is at least one of the more “talked about” sexual acts. Even the shop where I worked could only find one decent book on the subject.

Anal–for those who do it and do it correctly–can be a wonderful addition to a healthy sex life. The anal cavity has a very high concentration of nerve endings, much higher than the first two inches of the vaginal opening, and has been recruiting devotees for centuries. ”
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Those college newspapers seem to love the topic of anal sex…

http://gauntlet.ucalgary.ca/story/10581

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June 5th, 2013

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Will pegging make you a better man?

June 5th, 2013

Well, you know, I can kind of see their point.

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"For men who have never been on the receiving side of penetration, sex is something that happens outside the body. And when sex is external to your body, it can be easier to do when you have a headache or you're not quite in the mood. A lot of men discover than when sex is about catching rather than pitching, their mood, their emotions, and their connection to a partner can often have a bigger influence on what they want to do and how it feels." Men, Glickman and Emirzian suggest optimistically, will be a lot less likely to rush foreplay once they've experienced how long it takes to relax sufficiently in order to comfortably take a dildo (or other sex toy) in the ass.

For women, Glickman and Emirzian write, the experience of pegging a man can be equally revelatory, suggesting that "many women who use strap-on dildos discover how much work, responsibility, and (sometimes) power can be part of fucking someone."

"There's a common myth that anal sex only hurts the receiver," they say; it's too often assumed (especially when it's a man doing the penetrating) that he's taking pleasure in causing discomfort, while the "bottom" (usually a woman) gets pleasure only out of making her guy happy. "We suspect this is also why some straight guys may fear that their female partners want to penetrate them not for mutual pleasure, but as some kind of passive-aggressive payback." That's just not true, Glickman and Emirzian insist, and the sooner men get over their anxiety and guilt, the more fun they and their partners will have. And maybe, just maybe, we can peg our way right out of sexism itself.

http://jezebel.com/5987888/if-you-want-a-more-thoughtful-boyfriend-try-pegging-him

Anal Rape, and Girls That Don’t Ever Want Anal

June 5th, 2013

Dan Savage dealt with a strange and interesting letter this week, one that should be of interest to every man interested in anal sex with a woman. Read the article first, so you can get a sense of what I’m talking about.

A Bad Ex by Dan Savage in the Village Voice

“About a year ago, Enis asked me if we could have anal sex. I might lose your sympathy here, but I have no interest in anal sex at all. I had a traumatic experience with anal sex that resulted in some permanent damage; I cannot do it without a lot of pain. I told Enis no and that I was surprised he had asked, given my past. I offered to do him, if that was what he was looking for. He refused, telling me he wasn’t gay. He asked me to reconsider a few more times, but I always told him no. Enis even attempted to just “add it in” while we were having sex once. It fucking hurt, and I flipped out on him. I told him I wasn’t going to change my mind, and if he had to have anal sex then he could have it with someone else, giving him an out if it mattered that much to him.

A month ago, we were making love. I was restrained to the bed; we did this all the time. The next thing I knew, he was fingering my anus. I told him to stop, but he wouldn’t. He took his time, stretching and lubing. I was screaming and crying for him to stop the whole time. I won’t get into how much it hurt, but suffice it to say I nearly passed out from blood loss as a result of his tearing open old scars. He freaked out when he saw the amount of blood on the bed and called 911. (This was after he’d had an orgasm.) I spent a week in the hospital and ended up with 30 stitches to rerepair the damage. I’m still in a lot of pain. “

Dan Savage then writes in reply:

“Good fucking God. Your ex should get down on his knees twice a day and thank his lucky fucking stars that you didn’t press charges. He raped you—you know that, right? The word rape doesn’t appear anywhere in your letter, NCA, which I hope isn’t a sign that you see this “incident” as anything other than a full-blown sexual assault. So what if Enis used lube? So what if he took his time? Some rapists use condoms and say “please” and “thank you.” They’re still rapists. “

It’s a strong letter, and a strong reply. But, there are parts of it I’m having a hard time buying. And I’m not sure the situation is as black and white as either the correspondent or Dan Savage is making out.

This couple had been together for longer than a year, and, according to the letter, (“I was restrained to the bed; we did this all the time.”) bondage sex was a regular part of their play. Is unrequested anal sex during consensual frequently practiced bondage such an outrageous act? I think it depends a lot on the people and the situation.

Should he have stopped, given that she says she was “screaming and crying for him to stop the whole time”. Clearly, definitely. Saying “Oh No, don’t put it there…”, then groaning and grunting, is totally different from screaming and crying to stop. Clearly there was somthing very wrong in the communication between the couple that led to a disaster.

I’ve said here before that with anal sex you have to be very observant and aware of your partner. In fact, I’d say three quarters of the time I’ve had anal sex I’ve ended up stopping, or in some other way modifying what I was doing, because I could tell my partner wasn’t ready for the full blast “OH GOD OH GOD!” anal experience. I strongly suggest this approach – when you initiate anal play and anal sex, be 100% ready to let it go without any worries or attachment if it doesn’t seem like it’s going to work out.

At the same time, and I suppose I should feel bad for this, I have at times taken control of a situation and made a girl go thru with full depth anal sex wether or not she wanted to – usually in breakup and makeup sex. Every time, in my experience, it was a powerful, mutually satisfying and bonding experience for both of us. And, in less charged situations, I’ve had women tell me that it helped them to have me be dominant and grab their hair and tell them that they could take it, that it would only hurt for a minute, and that they would start to really like it very soon.

We’re starting to enter dark and mysterious psychological realms, which are one of the things that anal sex is all about.

This leads me to wonder what the psychological dynamic between the couple in Dan’s letter was all about – and wonder if there were other unspoken issues between the two, for which anal sex was a symbol – for which anal rape was a symbol.

One of the things that the writer of the letter said that struck me was this – “if he had to have anal sex then he could have it with someone else, giving him an out if it mattered that much to him. “.

Hindsight is always 20/20, but I’m sure many of you men out there have heard this line before, or one of it’s variations. “I won’t do that dirty thing with you”, then the disdainful challenge to go do it with someone else.

Guys, when women say this, you’re probably wisest to believe them, and either dump them or have affairs on them, because they are basically calling you a loser. There are women out there who will have anal sex with the man who has the deep desire to have anal sex, and frankly, they are a better quality of woman than the woman who acts like her asshole is too special for your cock, and treats you like a dog for wanting her that way.

Hair Pulling Anal Sex

June 5th, 2013

Anal Hair Pulling

Grab your girls hair during reguular sex and especially during anal sex – pretty much all girls love it. But make sure you grab it the right way! Don’t grab hair on the top or sides of her head – there is only one great place to grab a girls hair, and that is near the nape of her neck.

Grab as much hair as you can – a big handful distributes the pulling over a large area, and gives her a very pleasant feeling, while holding a little bunch of her hair will hurt her, and piss her off.

Here’s a nice pic of some anal hair pulling, maybe a little rough, but during anal a little roughness in other areas is a good distraction, and helps her relax.

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Anal Rape in Lady Chatterly’s Lover

June 5th, 2013

“Among the famous love scenes there is one that was not noticed by judge or jury, by the prosecution or defence – not by anybody. In it Lawrence lauds the anal fuck as the apex of sexual experience, but it is written in such a way as not to be explicit. Well, it is known that a lot of people enjoy anal sex. In these days he would not have to write so obscurely. Apparently he is leaving behind tender-hearted fucking, and the vaginal orgasm, not to mention the poor old clitoris, for what is described is really an anal rape. Constance enjoys it and reaches her fulfilment as a woman – we have Lawrence’s word for it. But it is so funny that no one in that court saw what Lawrence was actually saying in this novel, defended as being really so moral and so wholesome.”

http://books.guardian.co.uk/review/story/0,,1819727,00.html

Doris Lessing writes about how anal sex and anal rape were themes in D.H. Lawrence.

Blonde hotty gets her anus stuffed rough then sucks off the anal juice

June 5th, 2013


First Virginee sucked on his dick to get him hard and then he plugged it into her asshole for some deep anal sex. As her asshole was open gaping wide, she then took a throat fucking while gagging on his cock. She tasted her ass on his cock as she did some kinky ass to mouth action. Finally he then dropped a load of jizz down her throat.