Every guy in the world wants to be able to delay ejaculation, to fuck his partner for a long time. Not every time, you have to remember that (in my experience anyway) women often don’t really want “all night long” sex. It makes them sore, and increases the chance of bladder and yeast infections, which all women are concerned about. And, long, hard sex blows their mind, and there are plenty of times when women want to have a little sex without getting their minds blown. So, delaying ejaculation is something to use appropriately. Use this technique with care.
But, delaying the male orgasm is actually pretty easy, once you know the secret. When you do want to fuck the hell out of your girl, this is how you do it.
When you first enter her, a chain of stimulation starts, an ancient biological rythym that has one goal - to pump semen into her vagina as fast as possible. Your bodies natural penis stimulation hard wiring isn’t designed to give her a long hard fucking, it’s designed to get her pregnant. So, you have to short circuit the natural process, and push your nervous system into a different state, a state in which you stay hard for as long as you want without coming, and have to concentrate on pleasure in order to get yourself to ejaculate.
And, luckily enough, there is an easy way to short circuit the natural fast ejaculation, and it doesn’t involve anything complicated, and sure doesn’t involve concentrating on baseball scores or whatever other lame shit you see joked about on TV or in movies.
It’s just this - when you feel yourself beginning to approach the state in which you could have an orgasm, stop thrusting, and pull out of her. And now you have to wait, outside of her, not overly stimulating your cock, for between 90 seconds to 3 minutes.
And, here’s the real trick. There’s an easy way to do this, and work it into the natural rythym of having sex. Pull out of her, kiss her and rub her body, and then _change positions_. Changing positions, switching to doggy style, or side by side, or whatever new position seems like a good idea. The time you need to change positions is just about exactly the time needed to short circuit the natural penis excitation cycle. And there is something else, involving I think the shift in concentration and body sensation involved in moving into a new position, that blocks the quick ejaculation response. Usually, after doing this you will have your fuck time increased 4 to 8 times.
So, it’s the perfect sex trick. You pull out and change positions, which makes your lovemaking more interesting, playful, memorable, and mind blowing, and at the same time you extend the length of time you can fuck. And, when you have her all softened up and sexed up and mind blown from a long hard fuck, she is in the perfect state to start with anal play and anal sex.
You will need to experiment and practice wioth this a bit yourself. Every man’s body is slightly different, as is every man’s sexual cycles and triggers. But, the idea is sound, tested, and in one form or another has been a recommendation for delaying ejaculation in much of the advanced sexual literature, tantra, and the like around the world. Try it. It works like gangbusters.