Anal Sex Tips

Dan Savage is a funny guy with one of the best sex advice colums being written today - and because he’s gay he understands anal sex far better than most people. He’s always worth reading. I get the Village Voice email edition just to read Savage every week.

He wrote a good entry called Anal Sex 101 last week, it’s your basic stuff, but fun to read, visit the link, you’ll enjoy it.

His second entry is about gay anal sex, so don’t read it if that kind of thing makes you nervous. Personally, I think his advice is 100% applicable to having anal with women, it’s the ‘hold still after she comes’ trick, and it’s pretty important to know.

Anal Sex 101 by Dan Savage

“Q: … I am now dating a woman whom I love intensely and who is open to anal sex, but we just can’t make it happen. Toys, fingering, eating ass, fucking—it all hurts her. She is a ballerina and therefore small with a tight frame. I know that you probably don’t have some super-secret gay-guy ass-sex trick, but is there a best plan of action here?”

“A: Toys, if they’re too big and ineptly employed, can hurt. Fingers, with their bony knuckles and sharp nails, can hurt. Fucking can hurt. But eating ass never hurt anyone. I mean, tongues and sparkling-clean buttholes go together like rama-lama-lama-ke-ding-a-de-ding-a-dong. So unless you’re wearing a diamond-encrusted grill or you studied eating ass under Jeffrey Dahmer, there are only three plausible explanations for this baffling assertion, listed here in ascending order of plausibility: (1) Your tongue is four feet long and it irritates her esophagus when you rim her….”

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