Anal Sex Lubricants

My personal favorite lubricant is Astroglide, and luckily this very fine sex lube is usually commonly available, certainly my local Wal-Mart always has it, alongside the condoms and the spermicides. (note: now many stores carry a good selection of sexual lubrication products, more than when I first wrote this particular article. And, for what it's worth, my personal favorite kube is now KY Warming Liquid.)

Vitamin E oil is also very nice, the kind that they sell in little plastic bottles in the herbs and supplements and vitamins section of  Wal-Mart and similar types of stores. Vitamin E oil is messier, in my experience.

I've also used coconut oil, but that is a little esoteric. Solid when it's cold, it warms quickly and becomes a clear light nice smelling oil.

There's a good argument for not using oily lubricants, including natural oils including Vitamin E and cocunut oil, and baby oils, mineral oils, vaseline, and the like, which is that the oily substance is harder for the body to expel and may harbor or support certain kinds of bacterial infections.

Altho, I didn't encounter any problems the few times that I used them. It's just that the "real" sex lubricants like astroglide and the newer sex lubes like KY liquid and KY warming, are so much better, easier to use, easier to clean up, slippery, and in every way preferable.

Oily lubes are also more likely, in my experience, to "foam" during the strokes in and out, which can be a little messy, and sometimes embarrasses the girl, which is understandable (so remember to have some soft paper towels or strong tissues handy to control the mess.). Some mess, and some shit, is a natural part of many, and realistically of most, anal sex eperiences, but choosing a good quality lube which is very slick and not too messy is one of the wisest moves you can make if you want your female partner to enjoy anal fucking.

Astroglide is also superior hand job lube. My babe likes to use it to jerk me off.

Vaseline is surprisingly bad as an anal lube - I say surprisingly because I guess it's been around much longer so it has a real history of use for anal sex. However, it is stickier than it should be, causing more unpleasent and sometimes painful suctions and other effects, it foams a bit, it's quite hard to clean up, and it drips afterwards for quite a while- I used to use it in earlier years but never liked it, and switched to the medical KY jelly as soon as I discovered it. KY jelly, of course, has been replaced by the modern lubes.

Get some bottles of sexual lubes, practice using them, and keep them handy in the areas where you usually have sex. Use them for regular vaginal sex so that you and your partner get some experience with them. Oh, and keep some clean cloth handtowels or at least some papertowels nearby too, sex lubes and hand towels are natural partners, and besides, chicks seem to dig the cloth handtowel effect, and they'll really appreciate having some at hand during and after any kind of sex.