Anal Sex Tips

It looks like a lot of Jamaican’s think so. That’s fine, it just means more tight female booty for me!

This article starts out with a nice, tho small booty pic too! Check out the funny comments at the bottom…

http://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/20070226/flair/flair7.html

“Surprise, surprise, anal sex is not practised exclusively by gay men! In fact, some heterosexual couples do engage in female receptive anal intercourse.

Participating men claim that the anus is much ‘tighter’ than the vagina, resulting in more tactile pleasure for the penis, giving incentive for him to enter the forbidden region.

There is, in fact, a lower risk of unwanted pregnancy via unprotected anal intercourse, and virgins may keep their hymen intact by engaging in anal intercourse in lieu of vaginal. The former is true, provided ejaculate does not flow down over hergenitals.

Further, research shows that the anal area is equipped with many erotic nerve endings in both men and women.

All that said, it would seem that anal sex reaps pleasurable benefits for both the participating male and female. But does the desire to, or actual penetration of a woman’s anus by a man, suggest that he has a propensity for homosexual tendencies?

Jermaine

“A by bwoy dat. Cause anus is anus and man nuh fi go de soh!”

“Dr Victoria Lukats is a psychiatrist and an expert on relationships and dating.” And she’s kind of hot - check out the pic of her on this page - I think it would be hot to have some long, slow anal sex with her!

But her advice on anal sex is no advice at all. She’s just trying to capitalize on the growing interest in anal sex in society.

My Husband Wants Anal

“As for his appetite for threesomes and anal: you needn’t feel pressurised to do anything you’re not comfortable with.”. Which is certainly true. I can’t say anything about threesomes - I’ve had a few and they are pretty much overrated, it’s very hard to find the right people in the right relationship space to have a threesome, feelings tend to get hurt, and the sex is fraught with headtrips. But as for anal, it;s your job as the anal fuck_er to persuade the anal fuck_ee that it’s going to be a good experience, and then to have the knowledge and skills (and yes, emotional connection) to make it a good, or at least fun and interesting, experience for both of you.

This wasn’t a particularly good article, but interesting in that it’s women asking women this question…

http://www.women24.com/W24/Experts/

“Any and all anal play requires a relaxed anus of the one being penetrated, a finger, toy, dildo, or penis covered in a latex condom or glove. It requires consent of both people as forced anal penetration creates tears in the anus so leaving both people at risk to infection. As you can see side effects are primarily health issues. And these can be well managed if protective behaviour is practiced.”

I suspect that what the woman asking the question wanted to know was, “does having anal sex damage my rectum in some way, so that I’ll have to wear diapers when I’m old? And if it does, how long can I do it before that starts to be a problem…?”.

This seems to be a big concern with some women. And it’s not terribly easy to get good information on wether or not this is an actual risk. So I thought I’d ask, do any of my readers know anything about this?

I do have my own information about this, and I’ll try to get back to a further answer of this question in the future.

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” …the most common questions I have received are always regarding anal sex. It’s unfortunate that there is not more literature on the subject as anal is at least one of the more “talked about” sexual acts. Even the shop where I worked could only find one decent book on the subject.

Anal–for those who do it and do it correctly–can be a wonderful addition to a healthy sex life. The anal cavity has a very high concentration of nerve endings, much higher than the first two inches of the vaginal opening, and has been recruiting devotees for centuries. ”
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Those college newspapers seem to love the topic of anal sex…

http://gauntlet.ucalgary.ca/story/10581

“My boyfriend and I are sexually involved. Around eight days back, we had anal sex without using any protection. Now there is some kind of fluid being secreted from my breast. Could I be pregnant?”

“You can’t get pregnant from anal sex but if some of the semen touches the vagina, it is possible that you could be pregnant. I suggest you have a pregnancy test done by a pathologist. The fluid in the breast cannot be due to the event. If it reoccurs, see a gynaecologist.”

This little bit of writing was from a newspaper published in Mumbai, India - proving at the very least that (a) people are enjoying anal sex all over this planet, and (b) some questions, like “Can I get pregnant from anal sex?” are universal.

But that question has a well known and obvious answer, the same answer that applies to all sexual activity that includes the male orgasm and emmission of sperm. Sperm is motile, it “swims” and moves, and if it manages to get into the vagina, there’s a chance, altho a smallish one, that the sperm will swim it’s way to the uterus, and if the uterus is in the right chemically receptive state (that is, if this happens during or just before the woman’s fertile time roughly in the middle of her menstrual cycle) the sperm has a chance of making it’s way into the uterus, up the fallopian tube, and of meeting with the egg.

If that happens, you get knocked up.

As every woman (or man) who has received anal sex and had a man orgasm in the anus knows, sperm will drip out slowly for a fair amount of time afterwards. That sperm is likely to be still alive, and altho this should be obvious, the sperm that drips out is awfully close to the vagina. So, you had better be a bit careful.

After anal sex, if the man orgasms inside the anus, I do suggest the woman spend a little time in the bathroom afterwards, sitting on the toilet and trying to expel the semen. This is also a great time for anal sex’s very best friend, the disposable bottled enema.

If you are really knowledgable and skilled with anal sex, you already know that giving the receptive partner a quick disposable enema or two before having anal sex is a very good idea. ( This is especially true if your receptive partner is a man - I’m not sure why this is, but men tend to have more crap in their lower colon than women do, and anal sex with a man is much more likely to be messy than anal sex with a woman.)

Here’s a bit more about the mess of anal sex.

Well, if you are a fertile woman, and you’ve had anal sex, using a disposable enema afterwards is a good idea to add a bit of extra protection from the risk of these pesky sperms getting frisky and swimming from the droplet of post-coital cum from the anus, across the perineum, and up the vagina to the egg.

So, to sum up, you don’t get pregnant from anal sex, but, sperm is alive and tricksy, so as with all sex involving fertile women, pay close attention to where that sperm get’s to afterwards, be aware that sperm drips from the anus for us to a day or two, and don’t allow that sperm to get near the vagina.

http://www.dailyevergreen.com/story/20169 "QUESTION: My boyfriend wants to “spice things up” in our sexual relationship, and by “spicing things up” he means trying anal sex. This has always been a little weird to me. Is it even safe? ANSWER: Oh, men and their infatuation with the female booty. This fascination with a girl’s ba-donk-a-donk leads to the fantasy of anal sex. Why? Some men say curiosity, some say because it’s forbidden or kinky. Others say it feels better because it’s tighter. Girls, on the other hand, are usually one way or the other on the idea: Either they are adventurous and want to try new things, or they are adventurous but don’t think that thing should ever be tried. "

As I’ve said before, analsex is in the news more and more often these days.

Here’s a typical article:

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Why Do Women Enjoy Anal Sex?

I know why men physiologically enjoy anal sex (or at least, I’ve been told it has to do with the prostate, etc. etc.), and I know of both straight and gay men who have enjoyed anal play. But why do women enjoy anal sex? Are they physiologically capable of doing so, or is it just mental?

— Puzzled About Anal Love

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“Sexpert” gives the standard answer, which, as we anal afficianados know, isn’t a very good explanation at all:

“That means that many of the nerve endings which are stimulated during vaginal intercourse or fingering can also be stimulated during anal play. For some women, the G-spot is also stimulated during anal sex. Some women even report that anal sex is better for this purpose than vaginal stimulation!”

But there’s something else involved that isn’t explained by these types of standard answers. Something about the nervous system of the anus and rectum that causes intense pleasure, something that the experts may not understand as yet. It’s not just a transfer of pressure to the clitoris or the g-spot, or at least, in my experience, it seems more mysteriosu than that.

I think there is some kind of physiological pleasure reward associated with shitting that is also stimulated in anal sex.

Whatever it is, when you get a woman to relax and experience it fully, almost all women describe it as being a very intense, very unique pleasure experience.