” Anal Eze and lubes like it contain benzocaine (or a similar ingredient), a topical anesthetic—think Ora-Gel for your butthole. They numb your butt so you can’t feel what’s going on; when you use them, you’re more likely to go farther or take something bigger in your ass than you’re ready for. The result: a sore ass, possible tearing and damage to the delicate lining of the anal canal and rectum, and pain—all things that won’t exactly make you want to rush right out and try anal sex again. Plus, on the off chance that the anal penetration is pleasurable, you won’t be able to feel that either.”

Tristan Taormino’s “Sensitive Spots”

She describes anal ease as her “archnemesis” – well, that’s giving it way too much credit. What it is, is a stupid product, don’t use it. It’s not even a particularly good lubricant, in my opinion, at least not the product I tried, maybe there are other versions or names that are better.

She argues against it because it numbs the girls insides and makes injuries, tearing, and discomfort more likely for her afterwards, and that’s probably true. I can’t say that for sure, because it didn’t do so the times that I tried it.

But one thing I do know, it fucks up the sensations of the experience, for her, and definitely for me, or for you, if you happen to be a male. Your dick gets numb, and mostly numb at the tip. You can’t feel her asshole sliding over your cock. Whoever fucking thought this was a good idea?

Some people say it delays ejaculation – well, damn straight it delays ejaculation – frankly, it was so annoying an effect I had to stop fucking and wait till that shit wore off.

It’s a waste of your money. Just get good lube, and practice using it, during regular sex, so it will just always be right at hand when the time for anal sex comes up.

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Hey man – yes, it’s happened to me, tho maybe not as bad as you describe, and it has probably happened to every serious and skilled anal sex guy. It’s a mess, like you say, but it’s one of the normal possibilities from anal sex, ESPECIALLY drunken anal sex,

I’d say the important thing is not to freak out your girl by overemphasizing it – because, if you and she like anal, you might want to have it again under better conditions, and if you make her feel bad about it, she’s going to get uptight at the thought of future anal sex.

I personally always figure if I’m going to fuck my girl in the ass the sheets may be a loss.

You have to understand that the porn movies lie – those girls in teh movies have taken about 3 fleet enemas before their anal scene, so that shit almost never shows in the movie – but, the anus and rectum is a tube for moving shit out of the body, it’s ALWAYS possible that your girl has some poop in there, ESPECIALLY if anal sex is something that happened spontaneously.

I’ve written before about this – and said – if you are afraid of shit, and getting shit on your cock or on the bed, anal sex is not for you. And given advice for how to handle and avoid shit, such as, use an anal blanket, a nice soft blanket you throw over the bed that has a secret function, to catch shit if any appears, and then to be thrown away as a quick and graceful solution to th shit problem. I’ve also said, watch what your girl eats , and do NOT try anal sex after big meals or meals likely to cause bowel trouble.

Some alcohol and anal can be a great mix – but if she’s blasted drunk, dude, you are taking your chances – because of exactly what happened to you, alcohol will help her relax, but also increase the chances that she relaxes so much that she poops, or has the strong feeling of having to poop. She may need to jump up and run to the bathroom – this is VERY common – and you have to be a calm mature man about it, send her off, kiss her when she gets back, and carefully figure out if she can handle continueing.

It’s also very common for a girl, especially an inexperienced girl. to exclaim that she is afraid she is going to poop, especially when you are pulling out your cock. You know that STUPID trick that the idiot porn guys do to those poor girls, where they pop their cock out, show her asshole, and push it back in, over and over? DON’T DO THAT! it’s incredibly stupid, bad anal sex technique, and unless your girl is very experienced she almost certainly will hate it, because it makes her feel liek she is about to poop every time, and it’s not particularly pleasureable.

If your girl says she is afraid she is going to poop, tell her you understand, that it might happen but probably wont, that it’s not a problem if she does, you will just clean it up, shit is no big deal. The protection against that feeling of about-to-poop is to keep your dick in her, deep, and hold her. And if she says “No I really need to poop”, hug her and send her to the bathroom.

So, bottom line – what happened to you was normal – tho it usually won’t happen with well planned anal sex. I figure it’s your responsibility as the man to be calm about it and not make your girl feel bad.

And everybody, keep in mind, a shit accident is always a possibility with anal sex, be prepared, and never ever be a wuss about it.

(By the way guy, this is such an important question that I am going to make a dedicated post with it…)

This article starts out with a nice, tho small booty pic too! Check out the funny comments at the bottom…

http://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/20070226/flair/flair7.html

“Surprise, surprise, anal sex is not practised exclusively by gay men! In fact, some heterosexual couples do engage in female receptive anal intercourse.

Participating men claim that the anus is much ‘tighter’ than the vagina, resulting in more tactile pleasure for the penis, giving incentive for him to enter the forbidden region.

There is, in fact, a lower risk of unwanted pregnancy via unprotected anal intercourse, and virgins may keep their hymen intact by engaging in anal intercourse in lieu of vaginal. The former is true, provided ejaculate does not flow down over hergenitals.

Further, research shows that the anal area is equipped with many erotic nerve endings in both men and women.

All that said, it would seem that anal sex reaps pleasurable benefits for both the participating male and female. But does the desire to, or actual penetration of a woman’s anus by a man, suggest that he has a propensity for homosexual tendencies?

Jermaine

“A by bwoy dat. Cause anus is anus and man nuh fi go de soh!”

But her advice on anal sex is no advice at all. She’s just trying to capitalize on the growing interest in anal sex in society.

My Husband Wants Anal

“As for his appetite for threesomes and anal: you needn’t feel pressurised to do anything you’re not comfortable with.”. Which is certainly true. I can’t say anything about threesomes – I’ve had a few and they are pretty much overrated, it’s very hard to find the right people in the right relationship space to have a threesome, feelings tend to get hurt, and the sex is fraught with headtrips. But as for anal, it;s your job as the anal fuck_er to persuade the anal fuck_ee that it’s going to be a good experience, and then to have the knowledge and skills (and yes, emotional connection) to make it a good, or at least fun and interesting, experience for both of you.

http://www.women24.com/W24/Experts/

“Any and all anal play requires a relaxed anus of the one being penetrated, a finger, toy, dildo, or penis covered in a latex condom or glove. It requires consent of both people as forced anal penetration creates tears in the anus so leaving both people at risk to infection. As you can see side effects are primarily health issues. And these can be well managed if protective behaviour is practiced.”

I suspect that what the woman asking the question wanted to know was, “does having anal sex damage my rectum in some way, so that I’ll have to wear diapers when I’m old? And if it does, how long can I do it before that starts to be a problem…?”.

This seems to be a big concern with some women. And it’s not terribly easy to get good information on wether or not this is an actual risk. So I thought I’d ask, do any of my readers know anything about this?

I do have my own information about this, and I’ll try to get back to a further answer of this question in the future.