” Anal Eze and lubes like it contain benzocaine (or a similar ingredient), a topical anesthetic—think Ora-Gel for your butthole. They numb your butt so you can’t feel what’s going on; when you use them, you’re more likely to go farther or take something bigger in your ass than you’re ready for. The result: a sore ass, possible tearing and damage to the delicate lining of the anal canal and rectum, and pain—all things that won’t exactly make you want to rush right out and try anal sex again. Plus, on the off chance that the anal penetration is pleasurable, you won’t be able to feel that either.”

Tristan Taormino’s “Sensitive Spots”

She describes anal ease as her “archnemesis” – well, that’s giving it way too much credit. What it is, is a stupid product, don’t use it. It’s not even a particularly good lubricant, in my opinion, at least not the product I tried, maybe there are other versions or names that are better.

She argues against it because it numbs the girls insides and makes injuries, tearing, and discomfort more likely for her afterwards, and that’s probably true. I can’t say that for sure, because it didn’t do so the times that I tried it.

But one thing I do know, it fucks up the sensations of the experience, for her, and definitely for me, or for you, if you happen to be a male. Your dick gets numb, and mostly numb at the tip. You can’t feel her asshole sliding over your cock. Whoever fucking thought this was a good idea?

Some people say it delays ejaculation – well, damn straight it delays ejaculation – frankly, it was so annoying an effect I had to stop fucking and wait till that shit wore off.

It’s a waste of your money. Just get good lube, and practice using it, during regular sex, so it will just always be right at hand when the time for anal sex comes up.

Here’s some free anal porn for ya!

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He wrote a good entry called Anal Sex 101 last week, it’s your basic stuff, but fun to read, visit the link, you’ll enjoy it.

His second entry is about gay anal sex, so don’t read it if that kind of thing makes you nervous. Personally, I think his advice is 100% applicable to having anal with women, it’s the ‘hold still after she comes’ trick, and it’s pretty important to know.

Anal Sex 101 by Dan Savage

“Q: … I am now dating a woman whom I love intensely and who is open to anal sex, but we just can’t make it happen. Toys, fingering, eating ass, fucking—it all hurts her. She is a ballerina and therefore small with a tight frame. I know that you probably don’t have some super-secret gay-guy ass-sex trick, but is there a best plan of action here?”

“A: Toys, if they’re too big and ineptly employed, can hurt. Fingers, with their bony knuckles and sharp nails, can hurt. Fucking can hurt. But eating ass never hurt anyone. I mean, tongues and sparkling-clean buttholes go together like rama-lama-lama-ke-ding-a-de-ding-a-dong. So unless you’re wearing a diamond-encrusted grill or you studied eating ass under Jeffrey Dahmer, there are only three plausible explanations for this baffling assertion, listed here in ascending order of plausibility: (1) Your tongue is four feet long and it irritates her esophagus when you rim her….”

This writer shares my dislike of benzocaine lubes like “Anal Eze” – they are more trouble than they are worth, both for you and for your partner. Just use a plain good quality lube.

http://www.analsextips.net/dont-use-anal-eze.html

http://www.analsextips.net/how-to-use-sexual-lubrication-for-anal-sex.html

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The Big “O” – Slick Advice

It’s important to consider what chemicals are in lube:

Before you get too excited by the thought of using peach or passion-fruit lube, you should know that flavored lube contains sugar, which can cause infection if used in the ass or vagina. Flavored lube is recommended for external use only.

Some lubes contain benzocaine, which numbs the anal walls to reduce pain. I recommend against using this type of lube for anal sex because it can cause harm to the anus and actually desensitize the pleasurable sensations of anal sex. You may not feel the pain in the moment, but you may later on. Ouch!

Lube containing nonoxynyl-9 is no longer recommended because new info suggests that N-9 may actually weaken the anal walls, making sex less safe.
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Here’s a really fun little article I came across by accident, which I really thought most guys into anal sex would enjoy reading, so go read it.

I don’t agree with a lot of the guys conclusions – basically, I think he’s being way too nice to his women, and that they would like a more dominant approach to ass fucking. But, still, it’s clearly an honest piece of writing, and I’m sure plenty of us will see something of ourselves in his experiences.

Oh yeah, I almost forgot! By the way, the author dude? He’s the real Silent Bob, from the movie Clerks and Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, and the other fuckin hilarious Silent Bob and Jay movies.

From the article:

“The first time the concept of ass-fucking was introduced to me was via “The Final Conflictâ€? – the under-appreciated third entry in the original “Omenâ€? saga, starring Sam Neill as the now-adult Damien. He hooked up with this reporter lady, and at one point, they’re getting down. Suddenly, he flips the chick over and buries it, all evil-like, in her dumper. As an eleven year old without the benefit of an internet connection (or an internet, period), I was confused, to say the least. Sure – I knew about conventional sex (I used to shoplift “Hustlerâ€? from the local magazine store), but the horror in this woman’s eyes and the physical displeasure she was indicating spoke of some unforgivable act I wasn’t schooled in. I was watching the scene and imagining this dude’s sporting some kind of forked cock (I mean, he IS the devil), that’s got a hydra-like head that’s snapping at this poor lady’s snapper – hence all the crying. I turn to my brother and ask “What the hell’s going on, ya’ think?â€? And my brother explains that Damien’s getting all sorts of rectal with this chick.

“He’s putting it in her butt,� Brother Don tells me.
“Why?� I ask.
“Because he’s the devil. That’s what the devil does, I guess.�

Now, coming from a Catholic household and six years of Catholic school at this point, you’d imagine that’d be some kind of formative moment for both of us: like, from that moment forward, me and my brother would forever associate (or ASSociate) anal sex with Armageddon… The only Armageddon it introduced was my brother and I growing up to be like “Armageddon me some ass!â€? ”

Silent Bob’s Anal Sex Primer (and Picking Your Nose)

http://www.analsextips.net/how-to-use-sexual-lubrication-for-anal-sex.html

I’m always happy to respond to questions and comments, even if I haven’t posted anything lately, comments will be emailed to me, and I’ll try to get back with a reply in a day or two.