Archive for the ‘Anal Sex’ Category

Anal Sex – why women are doing it more often? (it’s the orgasms)

Friday, April 27th, 2012

"94 percent of women who received anal sex in their last encounter said they reached orgasm—a higher rate of orgasm than was reported by women who had vaginal intercourse"

 In a recent article courtesy of slate- ‘Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?’ the author explores what he initially perceived to be the reluctant engagement of women in such a sphere only to find on the whole many of them, especially younger women were often the ones engaging and seeking it out.

Since 1992, the percentage of women aged 20-24 who say they’ve tried anal sex has doubled to 40 percent. The percentage of women aged 20-39 who say they’ve done it in the past year has doubled to more than 20 percent. And 94 percent of women who received anal sex in their last encounter said they reached orgasm—a higher rate of orgasm than was reported by women who had vaginal intercourse or received

The author then hypothesizes a variety of reasons why women are in fact seeking it out. Reasons that I have summarized below. The overwhelming consensus seems to be on the whole the idea of ‘anal sex’ being perceived as a demeaning activity has abated as well as the awareness that anal sex on of and itself despite what your grandma’s or the pope tells you can be quite enjoyable. It could also be that we are more willing to experiment and treat ourselves to pleasures now that buying pleasures isn’t once the type of option it used to be economically.

http://scallywagandvagabond.com/2010/12/anal-sex-why-women-are-now-doing-it-more-often/

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How to Delay Ejaculation

Friday, April 6th, 2012

Every guy in the world wants to be able to delay ejaculation, to fuck his partner for a long time. Not every time, you have to remember that (in my experience anyway) women often don’t really want “all night long” sex. It makes them sore, and increases the chance of bladder and yeast infections, which all women are concerned about. And, long, hard sex blows their mind, and there are plenty of times when women want to have a little sex without getting their minds blown. So, delaying ejaculation is something to use appropriately. Use this technique with care.

But, delaying the male orgasm is actually pretty easy, once you know the secret. When you do want to fuck the hell out of your girl, this is how you do it.

When you first enter her, a chain of stimulation starts, an ancient biological rythym that has one goal – to pump semen into her vagina as fast as possible. Your bodies natural penis stimulation hard wiring isn’t designed to give her a long hard fucking, it’s designed to get her pregnant. So, you have to short circuit the natural process, and push your nervous system into a different state, a state in which you stay hard for as long as you want without coming, and have to concentrate on pleasure in order to get yourself to ejaculate.

And, luckily enough, there is an easy way to short circuit the natural fast ejaculation, and it doesn’t involve anything complicated, and sure doesn’t involve concentrating on baseball scores or whatever other lame shit you see joked about on TV or in movies.

It’s just this – when you feel yourself beginning to approach the state in which you could have an orgasm, stop thrusting, and pull out of her. And now you have to wait, outside of her, not overly stimulating your cock, for between 90 seconds to 3 minutes.

And, here’s the real trick. There’s an easy way to do this, and work it into the natural rythym of having sex. Pull out of her, kiss her and rub her body, and then _change positions_. Changing positions, switching to doggy style, or side by side, or whatever new position seems like a good idea. The time you need to change positions is just about exactly the time needed to short circuit the natural penis excitation cycle. And there is something else, involving I think the shift in concentration and body sensation involved in moving into a new position, that blocks the quick ejaculation response. Usually, after doing this you will have your fuck time increased 4 to 8 times.

So, it’s the perfect sex trick. You pull out and change positions, which makes your lovemaking more interesting, playful, memorable, and mind blowing, and at the same time you extend the length of time you can fuck. And, when you have her all softened up and sexed up and mind blown from a long hard fuck, she is in the perfect state to start with anal play and anal sex.

You will need to experiment and practice wioth this a bit yourself. Every man’s body is slightly different, as is every man’s sexual cycles and triggers. But, the idea is sound, tested, and in one form or another has been a recommendation for delaying ejaculation in much of the advanced sexual literature, tantra, and the like around the world. Try it. It works like gangbusters.

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“Heterosexual Anal Sex Experiences Among Puerto Rican and Black Young Adults”

Friday, March 23rd, 2012

A recent study of hetero anal sex, concentrating on the ethnic anal practices of hispanic and african americans.

http://www.thebody.com/content/art60126.html?wn

"Anal sex was reported by 34 percent of survey respondents. It was more common with serious (22 percent) as opposed to casual (8 percent) partners. Black participants were less likely than Puerto Rican respondents to report anal sex (odds ratio, 0.3); women were more likely than men to report anal sex (2.9).

The qualitative cohort found perceptions of anal sex as painful and unappealing were the predominant reasons for abstaining. Sexual pleasure and, in serious relationships, intimacy were the main reasons cited for engaging in it. During anal sex, condom use "was rare and was motivated by STD or hygiene concerns."

"Heterosexual anal sex is not an infrequent behavior and should be considered in a broad sexual health context, not simply as an indicator of STD risk," the authors concluded. "Health providers should address it openly and, when appropriate, as a positive sexual and emotional experience.""

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Sweet Blond Reaches Back To Guide It In to Her Anus

Thursday, February 23rd, 2012

 


Blond Guides It Into Her Anus

 

Don’t you just love it when she cooperates by reaching back and holding your cock head up against her crinkled little asshole? That’s just about the sexiest thing a women can possibly do. This is an older set of photos, but still pretty nice…

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Girl in nerd glasses aint such a nerd – she takes it up the ass like a cheerleader

Thursday, February 16th, 2012

NERDY TEACHER TAKES IT UP THE ASS LIKE A POPULAR GIRL

In this scene, we have a young nerdy teacher wearing cute sexy nerd glasses trying to get her inner city students to pay attention in class. They suggest they woukd be more interested if she strips while she teachesm and, becaus eshe love sti teach, she takes them up on the suggestion.

But soon there hard dicks prove a distraction to the nerdy teacher, and she can't help givibng them some sucks and marveling at the size and hardness.

Soon she is on her knees sucking those monster black dicks, and spreading her legs to let them inside her. But they know how to make sure nerdy teach doesn;t report them to the principal – they proceed to make her take theirt huge black dicks in her tiny little pooper, and going back and forth between her teacher anus and her nerdy mouth. .

Ryzele Ryzele

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Moms talk about anal sex

Thursday, February 2nd, 2012

Ordinary women chatting with each other on a forum about anal sex experiences, does anal sex hurt, what about the messiness of anal sex, bad anal sex experiences and good anal sex experiences.

http://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/lifestyle-8/health-sex-contraception-48/516250-anal-sex.html

 

Anal sex.

Ok so i know i probably sound a like a perv lol as this is my seconf sex post but its helpfull and im just curious really as to what other people do.

as in my last post, have a new "friend" who basically its just abit of fun, i like him but not more than friends however he is amazing in bed, so were just sleeping together for now which we are both happy about but weve tried anal sex, ive never had full anal before and i cant seem to relax, it doesnt hurt but its abit uncomfy so i tend to pull away, although it does feel nice but just abit strange, does anyone know i mean?
Its like i cant relax but i feel relaxed in every other way.

Plenty of lube and make him start off with one finger, then two, Then full anal maybe whilst you are masturbating which will help with the relaxation! That's how I like it!!

As soon as I am done he needs to get outta there if he hasn't already finished (which he usually has) then I give him a helping hand.

I agree plenty of lube!!!!

Usually it don't last too long for the man so don't worry bout it , I find best thing is too get very turned on first myself makes it all the better and of course a vibrator or fingers during the act helps things along nicely!

Thanks girls! Its not really something i wanted to ask my friends just incase they got abit embarrassed lol. The thing is, hes quite big so he goes quite deep, its not uncomfortable when he starts going in if you know what i mean, so i dont think lube will help that will it?? ill just have to say not to deep while i get used to it!

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The controversy over fifth base continues, and, anal sex as the most bonding of sex acts

Thursday, January 12th, 2012

A few days ago I wrote about a jezebel article about the rising popularity of butt sex – the subtheme of the article wa sthat now gorls were being expected to have anal sex too much by overeager guys, and that annal fissures were the resulting increasing trend…

The controversy over fifth base

Well, scallywag and vagabond did a followup article to that piece, entitled, amusingly enough:

Anal sex. How it suddenly became the grim reaper that women are now forced to exact at the mercy of leery men.Anal sex - do girls fear it?

A good read, click the link, you'll enjoy it I think. Not long, not sophisticated, the counterarguments and true enough but a bit weak and definitely unsupported. But go ahead, read it, it's part of anal culture now.

And the author left out something very important, which I will mention after the snippet.

Here's some snippets:

Really? Men are wishing to perform anal sex to subjugate a woman? To make her unhappy? To assert their own power? If this were the case I would dare think that instead of a general trend of more anal sex in society it would be the other way round- less anal sex as women realized it was both uncomfortable and demeaning to them. But the trends suggest otherwise, rather it suggests that men and women are more open to such affairs and that we only proceed with them because we are consenting adults who ultimately wish to please our partners as much as we aim to please ourselves.

 

I think his talk of mutual pleasure seeking and a new culture of sexual exploration is accurate enough, as far as it goes.

But, anal sex does have elements of domination and subjugation in it. Thats what makes it hot.

Here's the part that gets left out – for the people that like it, anal sex is the most incredibly bonding of sex acts that a couple is likely to experience. Even a bad anal experience can be immensely bonding. Frankly it never fails to make me feel incredibly close to a woman, to feel more trust in her, to feel that mushy in love feeling EVEN IF I"VE BEEN WITH HER FOR YEARS.

This is one of teh secrets of anal sex – it makes the man a fucking mushball of love and oxytocin bonding afterwards. It;s not JUST about domination, it's about the feelings of intimacy and yes, love, that come after the shared experience of domination and subjugation, the shared experience of anal sex and anal contact.

Now, this is probably not true for all people – you know, the old theories of tit men and ass men and oral or anal fixations, maybe theres soem truth to it, and for another emotional-sexual "type" anal sex wouldn't trigger that intense bonding. That's something for future sex researcher sto discover.

But – we are discussing anal sex at all right now because it's still the taboo hole – our society is obsessed with anal sex and forbidding anal sex – meaning that perhaps anal is the taboo that triggers bonding for a lot of folks – and fear of pleasure and inappropriate bonding in others.

Girls, something to think about – he wants you asshole in hopes of having something special with you, at the very least, of having a memory that never fades.

Don’t Use Anal Eze!

Sunday, January 8th, 2012

There was a good article by Tristan Taormino in her Pucker Up column recently, in which she mentions something that was important enough to bear repeating.

” Anal Eze and lubes like it contain benzocaine (or a similar ingredient), a topical anesthetic—think Ora-Gel for your butthole. They numb your butt so you can’t feel what’s going on; when you use them, you’re more likely to go farther or take something bigger in your ass than you’re ready for. The result: a sore ass, possible tearing and damage to the delicate lining of the anal canal and rectum, and pain—all things that won’t exactly make you want to rush right out and try anal sex again. Plus, on the off chance that the anal penetration is pleasurable, you won’t be able to feel that either.”

Tristan Taormino’s “Sensitive Spots”

She describes anal ease as her “archnemesis” – well, that’s giving it way too much credit. What it is, is a stupid product, don’t use it. It’s not even a particularly good lubricant, in my opinion, at least not the product I tried, maybe there are other versions or names that are better.

She argues against it because it numbs the girls insides and makes injuries, tearing, and discomfort more likely for her afterwards, and that’s probably true. I can’t say that for sure, because it didn’t do so the times that I tried it.

But one thing I do know, it fucks up the sensations of the experience, for her, and definitely for me, or for you, if you happen to be a male. Your dick gets numb, and mostly numb at the tip. You can’t feel her asshole sliding over your cock. Whoever fucking thought this was a good idea?

Some people say it delays ejaculation – well, damn straight it delays ejaculation – frankly, it was so annoying an effect I had to stop fucking and wait till that shit wore off.

It’s a waste of your money. Just get good lube, and practice using it, during regular sex, so it will just always be right at hand when the time for anal sex comes up.

Here’s some free anal porn for ya!

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