Don’t numb her butthole - and no anal botox bullshit either
I could barely believe it when aI read this advice column - was anybody, and has anybody, planned on using or used botox injections in their anus? I almost have top believe this is a fake anal sex advice letter, the idea is so - over the top.
Dear H&B,
I close friend of mine really wants to have anal sex and has tried a number of times, but can barely get anyone inside of her before it starts hurting more than childbirth. She’s even been to the doctor to ensure that nothing is wrong with her. Her boyfriend wants it too, so I was wondering if there was anything she could do to numb the pain. Do you know of any ways to make anal sex less painful and more pleasurable? I heard if you inject Botox into your anus before sex, it numbs you and makes it enjoyable. Is this true?
Hopefully Bummed
As I’ve said here before - it’s a mistake to use numbing agents like analeze - because (1) it’s increases the risk of an injury that will turn your partner off of ever having anal sex again, and (2) it messes up the sensations of pleasure for both of you. It’s a mistake, don’t do it.
It’s clear to me that the letter authors problem is simple - she’s not using enough lube.
Good advice at the end of the columnists response.
let anal porn queen Nadia Styles fill you in:
“She needs to do it as easy as possible first, using plenty of lube and a small anal toy inserted slowly,” reveals Styles, 26, a five-year porn vet who lost her anal virginity in high school. “And don’t do long strokes. Small strokes kind of open it up a bit more. You have to ease yourself into it. A lot of porn stars I know sleep with a butt plug before they do an anal scene, or at least put it in their butt and walk around a bit. Your butt hole does open up, so with practice it is possible. And I’ve never heard of putting Botox in your butthole. That’s crazy! She should take a shot of vodka.”
November 29th, 2008 at 5:12 pm
I recently saw a site about anal-tips for lesbian or general girl-on-girl anal.
It stood in a attached text to the article that there could be buttocks massage before the main anal. Like if they might like, the could go into a butt-to-butt possition and then just rub, massage or bump buttocks together, or even press in attempt to get anal-to-anal contact. They said that it would be very good arousal foreplay or “mentally preparing to anal massage”. It sound very hot to me, wonder if it would be the some if a man and woman did it.:)