Comments on: Everything you see in anal porn movies is WRONG!

By: Billy

Billy — Wed, 13 Jul 2005 22:37:21 +0000

I have a few questions. I’ve read some of your old websites… that’s how I found this. It seems like some of your views have changed reading your blogs. It seems like you were a little more into roughness and domination on your other webpages… from the kind of porn you showcased to the things you said ie: you said something like if you’re into chicks with a cock 1/8 into their asses and smiling this page isn’t for you. For example on your tips site you say to take charge or she’ll never let you in her ass… it sounds like your gf is in charge from your other blogs on this page… and what’s with liking the warming lube… i thought a woman’s complaint that the lube was cold turned you on lol. Anyway, just asking since I’m curious since i liked your anal sex tip and the anal destruction website you featured. Have you mellowed?

By: admin

admin — Wed, 13 Jul 2005 23:18:00 +0000

Hi Billy, thanks for the comment. You know, all that stuff I have said in the past about dominance and mental attitude is still just as true as it ever was. I was going to talk quite a bit more about this in the future, because, really, it’s the mental aspect of anal sex that is the real thrill of it, both for the fucker and the fuckee.

But, in a sense I have mellowed, because I’ve had years to think about this, and I’ve talked with women I had relationships with in the past, and with the woman who I’ve been involved with for years now - so I did want to present a more balanced perspective. (I say this partly because, if you talk to women about anal, more often than not they will start out by talking about _unpleasant_ experiences they’ve had.)

I also wanted to start this blog out with a more general approach, and cover the basics that everyone should know. Then get into juicy stuff like dominance-submission, the pleasures of pain, and how to make pain pleasureable when it happens, stuff like that…

By: joe

joe — Sun, 18 Sep 2005 15:44:01 +0000

I would like to ask a question? I am a man with self anal intercourse. I have never been with a man but I like “Doing it to myself only”! My question is after I’ve started in for awaile something inside pushes back .and all they way out to my butt hole comes my didlo. What makes it do that? sign, Joe

By: admin

admin — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 06:15:12 +0000

Hi Joe, thanks very much for your comment!

The “pushing out” you describe is a natural consequence of the way the rectum is designed. and it’s likely to happen during all kinds of anal penetration. The rectum includes sets of muscles then squeeze to shut the gut, and also squeeze to help shit come out. If you get the right kinds of stimulations and feelings, the gentler muscular contractions of the bottom of the colon and the rectum combine in a rythym to firmly push at the cock, dildo, or finger that is sliding in and out of the ass. This is what pushes your dildo out, sometimes with considerable force, and often accompanied by an intense burst of sensations, some good, some almost too intense to be called good.

This will often happen during penis in anus intercourse too - it’s very common for the woman, or man, being fucked to have an inner convulsion that pops the cock right out of the ass.

Which can be either a painful or a very erotic experience for the man doing the anal fucking.

A great question, and I’ll talk more about several things you have brought up in future tips.